As my first blog this may not go as I hope, but there will be renditions to make sure this most important point is made: Child Support IS fucked up.
I live in Massachusetts, there's the first problem. See here in MA we got like the best everything BUT we are turning into the most restricted, torn away rights-sort-of-place in the whole country. WHAT?! Whats the matter with you people?
Anyway
I live in Massachusetts with my boyfriend. He fucked up, married a whore and shit out a couple kids, now we're trapped. First off America have you ever heard of mistakes? Second, why the fuck do we have to pay a third, A FUCKING THIRD! of our money to a woman who has another man living with her who also has a child and is probably taking our child support and transfering it to his ex to pay for his own! Now to the point
I understand, women, that sometimes dads leave and go off on their own and never return to see the kids and you gotta take the to court and blah blah blah. LISTEN! That extra 200 bucks a week IS NOT going to your kids. You know it. We know it here that are paying into the system. We see the whole family with new hair cuts every other week. Funny, we haven't been able to afford hair cuts in two years. Hair cuts mean setting the chair up outside and getting out the electric shaver that was purchased at the dollar store. Child support my ass. That 200 bucks aint going to those kids. Nope. Do you realize it is more expensive for us to take the kids on a weekend than it is to have them for the whole week? We gotta pick them up at YOUR house which is 20 miles away, and go figure drop them off too. GAS. We gotta buy all sorts of candy and food to be eaten JUST FOR THAT WEEKEND for the fuckers to eat and leave us with no money or food for the rest of the week. FOOD. We gotta take them to do fun stuff so they don't think we're dead beats like YOU instill in them all the time. MONEY.MONEY.MONEY.
Now lets figure out what you do. You allow us to pick the children up to bring them to their baseball practices cause Lord knows you are not going to bring them. You collect our money EVERY WEEK! never once missed and complain if its late and even taken us to court to try and squeeze out more. You allow us to contemplate how we are going to get through the week since after paying bills all that is left must go to you. You do not take the children on an off weekend cause our apartments flooded and we can't take the kids but not your problem, its our week.
Ladies please, if you are guilty of any of these symptoms. STOP. You are feeding into the injustice Child Support is. If your leaving your ex broke and your living fairly comfortable, EASE UP! Ladies the men do not do it to us. THEY DO NOT! You see those loving single dads, the ones who were in love with their women who just got up and left them. The ones who have to stand behind now with children and explain why mommy left. Those men are not chasing down women to pay money. Those men, even if they know where these women live, are not going to fight it. Ya know why? Cause men understand out means out, and when that woman comes back and wants to see her children, well it is in that man's hands to decide her fate.
Ladies please! stop being greedy. Stop spreading your legs and seducing the American system to buy in to this ridiculous counterpart. AND AMERICA! your laws on divorce, child support, legal separation, FUCK YOU! it is all a money scam. Why is it after two years of being with my honey, a man who has been separated from his ex for 5 years, is still not divorced? Is it because the court system tries to rape us with a hundred different filings. Is it because those who can't afford attorney's get put to the back burner? Is it because some how the wife had the money to pay for court to try and squeeze more money out of us but not the half to pay for the divorce court? Or because we too cannot come up with our half because we have to give it away every week.
America, I am not complaining because we are negative money every week. I am complaining that this is an injustice SO many people are facing. Why do you think so many men do not pay child support. Because it is going to put us all in the ground. America you are making it almost impossible to ever make a mistake. And you are pushing more and more of your people into debt with your fees and stupid laws like child support. If that bitch got a new man, I think they can handle their shit. Fuck, if we did not have t give away a third of our money we'd be able to have our shit together too, and I am sure the kids would enjoy being with us a lot more.
This is why we all have cancer. This is how the tumor spreads. America, stop with this nonsense, whenever you get a bad idea it just keeps dividing and multiplying till it overtakes the people and our country goes to shit