I live in Massachusetts, there's the first problem. See here in MA we got like the best everything BUT we are turning into the most restricted, torn away rights-sort-of-place in the whole country. WHAT?! Whats the matter with you people?
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I live in Massachusetts with my boyfriend. He fucked up, married a whore and shit out a couple kids, now we're trapped. First off America have you ever heard of mistakes? Second, why the fuck do we have to pay a third, A FUCKING THIRD! of our money to a woman who has another man living with her who also has a child and is probably taking our child support and transfering it to his ex to pay for his own! Now to the point
I understand, women, that sometimes dads leave and go off on their own and never return to see the kids and you gotta take the to court and blah blah blah. LISTEN! That extra 200 bucks a week IS NOT going to your kids. You know it. We know it here that are paying into the system. We see the whole family with new hair cuts every other week. Funny, we haven't been able to afford hair cuts in two years. Hair cuts mean setting the chair up outside and getting out the electric shaver that was purchased at the dollar store. Child support my ass. That 200 bucks aint going to those kids. Nope. Do you realize it is more expensive for us to take the kids on a weekend than it is to have them for the whole week? We gotta pick them up at YOUR house which is 20 miles away, and go figure drop them off too. GAS. We gotta buy all sorts of candy and food to be eaten JUST FOR THAT WEEKEND for the fuckers to eat and leave us with no money or food for the rest of the week. FOOD. We gotta take them to do fun stuff so they don't think we're dead beats like YOU instill in them all the time. MONEY.MONEY.MONEY.
Now lets figure out what you do. You allow us to pick the children up to bring them to their baseball practices cause Lord knows you are not going to bring them. You collect our money EVERY WEEK! never once missed and complain if its late and even taken us to court to try and squeeze out more. You allow us to contemplate how we are going to get through the week since after paying bills all that is left must go to you. You do not take the children on an off weekend cause our apartments flooded and we can't take the kids but not your problem, its our week.
Ladies please, if you are guilty of any of these symptoms. STOP. You are feeding into the injustice Child Support is. If your leaving your ex broke and your living fairly comfortable, EASE UP! Ladies the men do not do it to us. THEY DO NOT! You see those loving single dads, the ones who were in love with their women who just got up and left them. The ones who have to stand behind now with children and explain why mommy left. Those men are not chasing down women to pay money. Those men, even if they know where these women live, are not going to fight it. Ya know why? Cause men understand out means out, and when that woman comes back and wants to see her children, well it is in that man's hands to decide her fate.
Ladies please! stop being greedy. Stop spreading your legs and seducing the American system to buy in to this ridiculous counterpart. AND AMERICA! your laws on divorce, child support, legal separation, FUCK YOU! it is all a money scam. Why is it after two years of being with my honey, a man who has been separated from his ex for 5 years, is still not divorced? Is it because the court system tries to rape us with a hundred different filings. Is it because those who can't afford attorney's get put to the back burner? Is it because some how the wife had the money to pay for court to try and squeeze more money out of us but not the half to pay for the divorce court? Or because we too cannot come up with our half because we have to give it away every week.
America, I am not complaining because we are negative money every week. I am complaining that this is an injustice SO many people are facing. Why do you think so many men do not pay child support. Because it is going to put us all in the ground. America you are making it almost impossible to ever make a mistake. And you are pushing more and more of your people into debt with your fees and stupid laws like child support. If that bitch got a new man, I think they can handle their shit. Fuck, if we did not have t give away a third of our money we'd be able to have our shit together too, and I am sure the kids would enjoy being with us a lot more.
This is why we all have cancer. This is how the tumor spreads. America, stop with this nonsense, whenever you get a bad idea it just keeps dividing and multiplying till it overtakes the people and our country goes to shit
Thank you, you just voiced all my frustration in a more civil manner than I could right now
ReplyDeleteIm still not happy cuz these words dont change shit about the system i hate being a fucking shitty American. My son is 6 i ain't find out about him till he was 3, his mom is 24 she has 2 more, one of her latest additions was left on the bed feeding unsupervised by the sorry ass new babydaddy and the baby not even a month old DEAD! wtf kinda shit is this OHIO is on some real bullshit, i need custody of my son and he wants to be with me, wtf do i do without going broke trying to get him! i dont have no damn extra money wtf is that!?
ReplyDeleteTruth is being spoken on this page. My wife and I have had to move back into her parents house because my license got taken away from inability to pay support 330 a month and only bringing home 900 with a delivery job. Lost that job when I lost my license now I cant work at all. Child Support Agency really messed me up. She got free lawyers I got nothing the judge pretty much ignored me and said get a ride child support is supposed to hurt. WTF! Child Support is Supposed to HURT! Talk about some bullspit I said since when did I commit a crime? Jail Time and Fines are supposed to hurt not some lopsided "your a man so take it in the a$$" tax against innocent people. I loved and cared for my ex right up until she decided to run off out of state because she was tired of living with me and wanted some new guy to sleep with.
ReplyDeleteGet another job, you deadbeats. You have no idea what it costs to be the custodial parent. Your little gripes about what you spend...well triple that sh!t and maybe you might start to get the picture. If the shoe was on the other foot I would pay anything and I mean anything to make sure my child had the best of everything. You don't have custody for a reason and its because of this bullsh!t attitude that is NOT in the best interest of the child. Your child's parent doesn't want you anymore. GET OVER IT. Take better care of your kid(s). Losers. For this blogger don't get it twisted the reason he's not divorced is because he loved having sex with that woman. Got her pregnant AT LEAST two times. You can believe whatever you want as long as you want but you will be the idiot. He loved it. Get a grip. The fact that he lets you say he sh!t out a couple of kids proves he's a worthless piece of sh!t. Get ready to be screwed over yourself. Dummy!
ReplyDeleteI want to see how you bitches feel 20yrs from now when your fucking sons are getting screwed for child support thats why I tell men dont get these bitches pregnant they are fucking leeches and be real you want to be a custodial parent because you want the money men are always denied that right because the court system is bias against men but keep doing what your doing you dick heads wonder why guys wont marry you and wont have kids with these women so bitches like you are just making it bad for women down the line
DeleteSo dumb...My son in 20 years will do whatever it takes to care for his children because his momma taught him right. We want to be the custodial parents because we are the better parent AND in my case I make three times as much as my sons father. That doesn't let him off the hook for supporting his child. It is a child's right to be support by BOTH parents. I think you have it twisted. No one is wondering why guys won't marry us. The real is WE won't marry such losers.
DeleteYou're a lying, greedy piece of trash! I know what it cost to raise a child since I have 5 plus a stepchild and I can tell you that it doesn't cost what we pay every month for that one. We live within our means which is how we survive but the ex lives the high life with the money we pay and we know for a fact that none of it goes to the child since she doesn't even live with her and goes partying all the time while the child stays with friends and relatives. So go to hell and I really hope that one day you get put in a similar situation so you truly understand what it's like to be on the other side. Not all ncp's are deadbeats. Child support should only be implemented when the ncp wants nothing to do with the child otherwise it should be 50/50 custody with no exchange of money period!
DeleteAmen. If you don't want to support children, keep it in your pants or wrap it up. Kids are expensive. I spend 60% of my income on daycare (which is cheap for around here). I spend the rest on a cheap apartment in the ghetto. I work 70 hrs a week to support my kids and I can't afford food for my kids and my power has been shut off a few time for a week. The only reason we are able to eat is because the owners of the restaurant I manage lets me take home enough food to feed my kids. My husband chose to abandon us and take no responsibility. You need to take care of your responsibilities!!!! Raise your sons to be responsible and plan before starting a family.
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ReplyDeleteIm paying child support for 6kids and been kool with until now I'll tell u this there not one person that can call me a deadbeat I wish someone would I pay my shit I get all my kids n still buy the shit but now I've been thinking like wtf is the system doing to me these mutha fuckers keep taking more n more money from me first off I make good money at my job making 17.80hr.that good money if u live n Ohio but these dickheads is takin ever thin from me and its not no better when I'm laidoff which I'm am rite now in they still want me to pay 300 for two kids that's 300 each now check this shit out u do the math on unemployment I get 400 a week that's 1600 a month 300 for 2kids each then 225 for another kid then 150+ for three more kids but and on top of all that three of them live 45min. Away I pick them up take them home that's a good amount of gas I get them every weekend and I get all of them for the summer and still have to buy things the the system don't count they say its a gift wtf u mean its a gift so what im saying that only leaves me with 300 + a month to live I got bills;rent;gas;food;etc why must they be so hard on the dads for I haven't had a new pair of shoes n two years can't eat much no money sometimes got to send the kids back home Cruz I don't got food for them in when I go back to work making 17.80hr. I only have 500+ to live on wow some time I just feel like giving up and move out the usa cuz they do us so bad that people don't pay or sell drugs or rob etc or work under the table n this is for the dads that trying to do go so tired of this shit
ReplyDeleteI was married for a year, decided to have children with my wife. Everything was perfect! Had our second planned kid. All of a sudden, nothing was right for her anymore, she evicted me " i was on the lease" from our place illegally "because I was on the lease" saying I was being irate, which I wasn't. I never yelled, screamed, raised a hand, she was treated like a queen "more so then should have been".
ReplyDeleteFast forward, I move back close to my family in another state, go through the divorce process, everything is looking great! I had all male staff/judge handling the case. Her attorney changed something, which left me with all WOMEN handling everything.
I went from 50/50 custody, to just visitation, hell I even have to take a drug test to see my kids, and I don't do drugs!
If I want to take them anywhere, she has to approve it, be there. Can I take the kids to see anyone in my family out of state? Nope!
I pay 600$ a month, for my two loves, that I never get to see, I'm lucky if I get to talk to them, most of the time she doesn't pay her bills and the phone is shut off.
My son asks me non stop when he will get to see me, all I can say is ask your mother. Nothing like being suckered into a sperm donor relationship and stuck paying for her lifestyle, because I know the money aint going to my kids! She has a new car, brand new s4 phone, hair done weekly, but still lives with her parents!
I'll tell you what, I can see why some people go crazy and do some of the things they do. It's hard not acting on emotions, it's not fair, there are fathers who beat their wives, in prison, who have more rights then I do when it comes to the kids, and I never did anything but move to another state "Califronia is a cest pool"
This woman has almost killed my daughter " she has epilepsy and crashed her car into a drainage ditch full of water from an episode", almost killed me 3 times in one night from this when we were dating, slapped me in the face in a public crowded place for accidentally pulling a hair on her sensitive head...
Fuk me right?